"Sympathy For The Parents" is the nineteenth episode of the sixth season of Grey's Anatomy and the 121st produced episode of the series. It is also the 170th produced episode of the Grey's Anatomy franchise. It was broadcast on April 1, 2010.
When Alex's younger brother arrives in Seattle with a hernia he is admitted to the hospital and the tenious relationship between the brothers grows tense when Aaron discloses secrets about Alex that he kept well hidden to his fellow friends and doctors. Callie and Arizona both try to avoid talking about their differeing opinions on their future while Derek catches Meredith of guard when he starts talking about having children. A devestating turn of events with a patient challenges Richard, Derek and Lexie as doctors
- "Psychologists believe that every aspect of our lives, all our of processes and behaviour paterns, are a direct result of our relationship to our parents. That every relationship that we have is really just another version of that first relationship. It's just us trying over and over again to get it right."
- "It's the most important job in the world. You probably should need a license to do it, but then most of us wouldn't even pass the written exam. Some people are naturals, they were both to do it. Some have other gifts. But the good news is, biology dictates you don't have to do it alone. You can waste your whole life wondering, but the only way to find out what kind of parent you would be is to stop talking about it, and just do it."
- "You're Not Stubborn" - Two Door Cinema Club
- "Remember Us" - Aqualung
- "I Found You" - Luluc
This episodes' title references the song Sympathy For The Parents, originally sung by Marilyn Manson