"The Way We Were" is the second episode of the third season of Private Practice and the 33rd produced episode of the series. It is also the 139th produced episode of the Grey's Anaromy franchise. It was broadcast on October 8, 2009.
Violet physically recovers from her attack, but it soon becomes clear that her emotional scars are not fading as quickly and she struggles to make an attachment to her son, Lucas. Meanwhile, the men in Violet's life all deal with their own fallout from the attack as Pete returns to work and worries about leaving Violet with the baby, Sheldon copes with being shut out by Pete and Cooper does his best to avoid the situation. Now that they manage rival practices, Addison and Naomi struggle to mend their tension filled relationship.
- "I Can't Fix Us Two" - Katie Costello
- "Make A Name For Me And You" - Rachel Cantu
- "Song For The Waiting" - Aron Wright